Logical and Emotional Reasons for Wanting Something
25 Apr 2005
YOUR REASON WHY A number of years ago I attending a 4 day seminar on Real Estate investing. At first I was surprised that the first subject of the seminar, taking nearly half a day, was 'Your Reason Why'. Now I understand why, and suggest that it is a good place to start when looking at anything worth doing in your life. By 'Your Reason Why', I mean the real deep down reason or reasons, not the superficial ones that immediately spring to mind. At that investing seminar a number of people volunteered their reasons why. They were things like wanting to make money, wanting to be able to quit working for someone else, wanting to be independent and wanting to prove that they could do it. These are all superficial reasons. What do I mean by the real deep down reason or reasons? There are two types of reasons that people have for doing something, or wanting something. There are logical reasons and there are emotional reasons. Logical reasons are the reasons we use to rationalise (rationalising is rationing lies) why we want to do things. For example we want to buy a car because it will be more convenient for travelling to work than using public transport, of we want to have a promotion at work because we will get a pay rise. Emotional reasons are usually the real reasons for doing or wanting something. We want to buy the car because of the way it will make us feel to own a car, or we want the promotion because of the respect we will get, or the boost it will give to our self esteem, or because it will enable us to put some money aside for a loved ones education. An early mentor of mine when I was involved in the corporate world was a talented salesman and sales manager. He told me that if I had logical reasons or goals, I would have skinny kids. When I say the real deep down reason or reasons for wanting something, I mean the emotional reasons. Emotional reasons have power and energy in them. Emotional reasons will drive you to keep doing something in spite of what might happen, in spite of what obstacles come up, in spite of what other people might say, in spite of anything. A person with emotional reasons for doing something finds the energy to make progress towards his goal, even when he is tired, even when he is ill, even when - no matter what. If you take the time to know and understand your real reasons why, you will become a person that does whatever it takes to get where you want to go. You become unstoppable. More information on how your emotional reasons (emotions live in your subconscious mind) drive you to get the results you get in your life, is included in 'The Power of the Mind' training program. This program also shows you how to identify emotional reasons that may be limiting the results you are getting, and how to replace them with more positive reasons which will remove those limits. Go to http://www.mypowerfulmind.com/page/page/1819535.htm to find out more.
Tony McGlinn
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